Monday, April 28, 2014

5 Love Languages Day 1.

So today we will begin  our 5 day series on The 5 Love Languages. Some of you may already know yours and your spouse's. But some of you might not know that you even have a love language. Well, you do. We all do. What is a love language? It's simple. A love language is how you most feel loved. If you don't know your love language or just want to take the test, follow the link provided. It is really simple and takes maybe 5 minutes.

5 Love Languages Quiz

The first love language we are going to look at is Acts of Service. People with this love language feel most loved when their spouse does things for them. Maybe your spouse does a chore around the house for you like washing dishes, doing the laundry, or even getting groceries for you. If this is your husbands love language, you may take out the trash for him, get his lunch ready for the next day or even cut the grass. We've all heard the saying, "Actions speak louder than words". This quote my friend, should be your slogan.

If this is your love language, I'm not saying that you need to take advantage of this and make your spouse do everything for you. That is not love. When your spouse randomly does some kind of service for you and it makes you feel loved.

Is this your spouse's love language and you hate to do chores? Let's look at it like this.

How would you feel if your love language was words of affirmation and your spouse never encourage or said sweet things to you? You would feel terrible and unloved, right? Right.

This is where we have to suck in our pride and do it anyways. We want our spouse to feel loved right?

Here's your challenge for today:
     - If your spouse's love language is acts of service, do at least one thing for them today. Then try one for          everyday this week. It's alright, make them feel loved. :)

Don't forget to leave a comment below to be entered for the free giveaway! Is this your love language? Is it your spouse's? I would love for you to share with me!

2 comments:

  1. Thanks for your inspirational words. I look forward to your blog each day. My love language is words of affirmation.

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  2. It's good that you already know yours! We will be getting to that one soon!

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